Sexological Bodywork

What is a Sexological Bodyworker?

Sexological Bodyworkers are somatic, erotic educators, assisting individuals, couples and groups to deepen their experience of embodiment.

We are trained sexologists whose certification is approved by the State of California. We offer experiential learning opportunities that consciously access profound ecstatic and erotic states.

Our teaching involves a variety of instructive modalities, including breathwork, touch, erotic massage, pelvic release bodywork, scar tissue remediation, and Orgasmic Yoga coaching.

One of the somatic realms that Sexological Bodyworkers introduce to our students is a state of arousal that is free of fantasy, unfinished emotional business, religious dogma, cultural caveats and habitual sexual behaviors. In this meditative state, an individual becomes aware of the body as a source of wisdom and freedom. One of the ways to access this fecund state is by actively receiving a Taoist Erotic Massage. Helping others access and make use of a variety of erotic states is foundational to the education we offer.

Sexological Bodyworkers believe that sexual health and erotic education are basic human rights.

Sexual arousal may induce an altered state of consciousness that is available to anyone willing to explore it. But, as with meditation and shamanic journeying, the non-ordinary conscious state generated in sustained sexual arousal constitutes an opportunity one must learn to use.

Dr. John Ryan Haule

Our Students

Since the most profound sex education happens when our students are fully engaged in the learning process, Sexological Bodyworkers act as resources more than teachers for motivated individuals who wish to explore what is erotically possible. Many sexological bodyworkers specialize in guiding individuals, couples and groups into the mystical and shamanic aspects of human sexuality. Although we come from many spiritual and religious traditions, we all acknowledge the spiritual dimensions of sexuality.

We also offer assistance to adult individuals who have experienced inadequate sexual education and instruction in self-care from family, religion, school, birth and health care professionals. Some people seek us out because sexual shame has damaged their self-image, interfered with relationships, or even thwarted their ability to love. We consider pleasure a powerful and valuable form of education.

Group Learning

Facilitating erotic embodiment in groups is the core of this new profession. Sexological Bodyworkers are co-creators of astonishing environments for student-centered learning, including fresh possibilities using groundbreaking techniques for erotic empowerment and self-care.

Being part of an erotic-learning community is an experience that Sexological Bodyworkers make available to everyone. Experiencing and understanding the communal nature of sex and embodiment is foundational for individual freedom, pleasure and happiness. Witnessing different people’s erotic expressions can inspire us, give us permission to try new things, or relieve us of toxic shame.

Teaching Through Media

Sexological Bodyworkers offer learning beyond individual sessions and groups. We seek to transform the culture by offering individuals and couples learning tools in the form of sex education DVDs, CDs, podcasts, websites, books, and articles.

Web Education:

The New School of Erotic Touch. Over thirty Sexological Bodyworkers offer video teaching, demonstrations, writing, and coaching through this online university. You are invited to make use of the hundreds of explicit streaming demonstrations. All sixty hours of video demonstrations at The New School of Erotic Touch can be watched online or downloaded to own.

The Orgasmic Yoga Institute. Orgasmic Yoga is a form of erotic yoga that involves pleasurable, intimate and transformative practices that individuals, couples, and groups can do while sexually aroused. One of the roles of Sexological Bodyworkers is that of erotic yoga instructor.

Books:

Red Hot Touch: A Head-to-toe Handbook for Mind-Blowing Orgasms by Sexological Bodyworkers Jaiya and Jon Hanauer (2008).

"Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch for Deep Pleasure and Extended Arousal" by Charla Hathaway, CSB (2007). 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex for a Lifetime by Charla Hathaway, CSB (2008).

Reclaiming Eros—Sacred Whores and Healers by Sexological Bodyworker Margaret Wade and Suzanne Blackburn (2008).

Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure…and Somehow Got Home in Time To Cook Dinner by Pamela Madsen, CSB (2011).

Cockfidence by Sexological Bodyworkers Celeste Hirshman and Danielle Harel (2011).

Energy of Love and Intimacy by Dr. Lyubov (2012)

Blow Each Other Away: A Couples’ Guide to Sensational Oral Sex by Sexological Bodyworker Jaiya (2012).

Sex Positions You Never Thought Possible by Jaiya (2012).

DVDs:

" Red Hot Touch: Genital Massage for Men " by Jaiya, CSB (2008).

" Red Hot Touch: Erogenous Zones and Orgasmic Massage " by Jaiya, CSB (2008).

" Red Hot Touch: Erotic Touch for Sexual Positions " by Jaiya, CSB (2008).

" Red Hot Touch: Exquisite Anal Massage " by Jaiya, CSB (2008).

" Red Hot Touch: Genital Massage for Women " by Jaiya, CSB (2008).

" Sensual Massage for Pregnancy " by Jaiya, CSB (2010).

" Oral Sex for Couples-- Connected Cunnilingus and Fabulous Fellatio (Volume One) " by Jaiya, CSB (2010).

" Oral Sex for Couples--Orgasmic Cunnilingus, Fellatio and Analingus (Volume Two) " by Jaiya, CSB (2010).

" Oral Sex for Couples----Sexual Positions for Oral Lovemaking (Volume Three) " by Jaiya, CSB (2010).

"Divine Nectar: An Explosive Journey Through the Sacred Feminine" by Sexological Bodyworker Tallulah Sulis (2007).

"The Best of Penis Massage"–An Anthology with Sexological Bodyworkers Joe MIron, Isa Magdalena, Ben Haggard, Jaiya, and Joseph Kramer. (2008)

"Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage"– Sexological Bodyworker Destin Gerek. Produced by Joseph Kramer, Ph.D. (2009)

"The Best of Vulva Massage, Volume Two"–An Anthology with Sexological Bodyworkers Joseph Kramer, Jaiya, Jon Hanauer, Tallulah Sulis, Destin Gerek and Roy Turpin. (2010)

"Erotic Nothingness--Allowing Sex to Have Its Way with Us" A Buddhist approach to erotic massage with Sexological Bodyworkers Peter Denger, Zia Maria, and Dragon. Produced by Joseph Kramer, Ph.D. (2012).

Podcasts:

"Expanded Lovemaking: Sex, Love, and Consciousness"–Juicy interviews with Mantak Chia, Daniel Odier, Margot Anand, Deborah Sundahl, Barbara Carrellas, and ninety other erotic educators by Sexological Bodyworker Dr. Patti Taylor (2007-2012).

Blogs:

"Shameless Woman" by Sexological Bodyworker Pamela Madsen is one of the most popular blogs at PsychologyToday.com.

Educational Sessions

Some Sexological Bodyworkers offer sexual education to individuals and couples in a personalized course of three to ten sessions. Somatic transformation happens over time. We seldom work in single sessions.

You will start by creating an agreement stating your learning objectives and the modalities that will be used. Informed consent from the student precedes all Sexological Bodywork, and professional confidentiality is assured.

A series of introductory sessions allows you to experience the benefits of orgasmic breathing, Taoist Erotic Massage, pelvic relaxation and release work, and mindful masturbation. Our joint evaluation of these introductory sessions may suggest a specific goal or learning objective for future tutorials.

A crucial part of the education Sexological Bodyworkers offer students is the value of intentions and boundaries. While we acknowledge the human longing for connection, we recognize the value of professional distance. We are conscious and make our students conscious that while we share authentic intimacy, sexological bodywork sessions will not fulfill their desires for sexual connection.

The focus of individual sessions is on the student’s experience within his or her own body. Sexological Bodyworkers do not act as surrogate partners. We are clothed and the touching in our sessions is uni-directional. We request students bring their partners when they wish to learn interpersonal erotic skills.

Sexological Bodyworkers are committed to complementing and extending the effectiveness of services offered by psychotherapists and other health care professionals. We value working in close partnership with these professionals but will do so only with your approval.

The Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

The Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB) is devoted to the promotion of professional somatic sex education. ACSB provides ongoing support for certified Sexological Bodyworkers by facilitating continued education, professional supervision and development of ethical standards. The ACSB website offers a listing of professionals worldwide. (There is also a directory of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers on this website.) There are also regional Sexological Bodywork associations in Europe, Canada and Australia (Somatic Sex Educators’ Association of Australasia (SSEAA)).